dangerous compassions

Hey, I got a new website.  Wow, how did that happen?  Please orient to this new site.  See you over there. http://www.listeningtothenoiseu...

Is it ok to put up pictures of your relatives? It's actually expected. What if they are old-timey and you didn't know them? ...

Well, I finally decided.  I'm ready to announce to the world: I like Almond Joy more than Mounds.  It took me 43 years, but there you go...

I feel so angry, the only correct thing to do would be to go out into the desert wilderness and howl.  Howl, scream, curse humanity, maybe h...

This interview our friend did with us--we got a surprise, this morning!  It was supposed to be unavailable, the recording, but here it is, n...

I like extremes--I can find a lot of learning there.  Intense experiences, so informative--quick insight from terrible or terribly wonde...

My sweetie will do a street medic training.  We did a brief photoshoot so I could have a new pic for the facebook event.  The stress is b...

content warning: mention of cop violence "What do you want in the middle of your sandwich?" I asked Ming.  Neighbors were shooti...

content warning: sexual assault, other violence I don't usually post poems I write to my blog, but this poem is different because I th...

1.  the central coast of California 2.  orange 3.  creamy ice cream, ricemilk chocolate, fancy chocolate, cheap chocolate, See's candy...

"I hate depictions of lighthouses!" I told Ming. He looked hurt. "I see I've affronted your sensibilities," I sa...

In case you need some spoons.  I know where a nice one is, in a magic parking lot.

We went out about 5:30am.  The sun came up.  Thanks, sun.  She does that every day, so far. I'm hurting a lot.  I was missing my sk...

1.  I accomplish stuff, at times. 2.  I know how to feel and do it regularly. 3.  I have enough food, shelter, ideas, clothes, love, frien...

I made a new zine.  Learning relationship skills from facebook memes, self-harm as self-care, and what I mean when I say I love you.  See...

It finally happened--Ming went to the printers, yesterday, and thanked them in Korean. Wish I coulda been there  But maybe one day covi...

Honoring strawberries, six pea plants are still growing, my yarrow bloomed.  The sunflower keeps changing. Ming changes t...

I don't like to watch tv, but I like to watch bv--Bee Vision.  It has no commercials, doesn't require electricity.  Goes straight...

I really wanted a certain Silvia Federici book.  I'm crazy about her!  But I was like, I won't really read it.  But I wish the ideas...

Lately I've felt overly vulnerable, over exposed, like I overshared.  Under valued too, underconsidered, misunderstood.  Like a snail th...